-A modern man knows how to show-up for the important people in his life. Traditional masculine norms haven't always taught men how to have quality interpersonal relationships. In fact, this is often a core reason that men seek therapy, or why their spouses have encouraged them to go to therapy. Traditional male stereotypes are often stoic, aggressive, tough, dominant, self-reliant and non-relational. Congruently, as a society we have raised our boys to be men who restrict and